Be There for Them
As one approaches the end of life, they may often sleep more. They may become unresponsive and difficult to arouse. Support them by sitting with them and holding their hand if they sleep. While they are asleep, talk to them about fond memories and share any important things you wish to say. Express gratitude, and share words of love or forgiveness. Assume they can hear what you are saying because even when their eyes are closed, understanding can still be happening.
Offer Refreshing Snacks
Naturally, as one is aging, metabolic processes also slow down. The appetite for eating and drinking also decreases. Forcing them to eat is not a good idea, especially if they can no longer do so. Instead, offer frozen juice chips or small ice chips as a refreshing snack. The coolness of the chips will be soothing against their skin. You can place a moist towel, glycerin swabs, or cotton pads on their forehead for relief as well.
Make Their Room as Comfortable as Possible
Dim the lights to avoid harsh glare, and play soft music they enjoy. You can also light candles or use an essential oil diffuser to provide additional comfort during their final days.
Give Them Warm Blankets
Because your loved one’s hands, arms, feet, and legs will increasingly be cool to the touch, they are prone to having chills. Distract them from the dropping temperature and help them stay warm by covering them with a soft and cozy blanket.
Guide Them Patiently
As the body is shutting down, your loved one may become disoriented, not knowing the day or time or what’s happening to them. To help them, let them know who you are and why you’re there. This will help their mind settle down.
Help Them Get in a Comfortable Position to Ease Breathing
Your loved one may breathe shallow breaths with periods of no breath or have rapid, rough breaths. Be supportive, and try to keep them on their side and elevate their head to ease breathing.
Your Team at Golden Rule Hospice
Ultimately, support your loved one’s wishes about the care they want to receive and their end-of-life plans. Allow them to decide on the type of care they want and where they want to receive that care.
If you are looking for different hospice levels of care for your loved ones, choosing the right provider is paramount. Golden Rule Hospice provides the best home hospice care in Atlanta, Brookhaven, Douglasville, Gainesville, Marietta, Peachtree Corners, Smyrna, Stockbridge, Stonecrest, and Woodstock. Contact us today at (470) 395-6567.
We live by the Golden Rule
Treat others the way you would like to be treated.
